For those of you who attended the special meeting of the Southport Board of Aldermen on August 23, you certainly remember an episode when I was prevented by the mayor from raising a perfectly legal point-of-order. When he refused to recognize my point-of-order--which is strictly forbidden by the Rules and Procedures we adopted just a few months ago AND by Roberts Rules of Order--I did what is recommended in Roberts Rules and continued to raise my point. The mayor hit his gavel with extreme force on the block, then pointed it at me and growled, "Be quiet or I'll kick you out of here!" It was my legal right to insist that my point be addressed, but without the city attorney there to cover me I decided to let it go.

BTW, the above quote from the mayor is 100% accurate, even though the State Port Pilot missed some of it. Please don't ask me and the mayor to attend a public meeting to verify the exact words. I told the truth the last time my recollection of past events was questioned, and I'm telling the truth now.
Rather than give you my (admittedly biased) account and conclusions of this far-reaching incident, I thought the editorial in the State Port Pilot in their August 25th issue says it all. Herewith are their words:
The State Port Pilot, Southport, NC, Wednesday, August 25, 2010
EDITORIALS
Out of order
Mayor Robert Howard deserves respect for trying to run a tight ship, for trying to get the Southport Board of Aldermen on a productive page and encouraging unanimity. But for trying to the point of controlling the actions of other board members, Howard is out of order.
Twice in as many meetings, Howard has denied the most vocal challenger to his authority, alderman Ken Karn, from being heard or from making his point effectively. Both times dealt with criticisms of the mayor’s conduct running meetings. Both times Karn called for a point of order about the mayor participating in board debates.
The first instance saw Howard simply ignore the comment. Most recently, Monday night, Howard struck his gavel, spoke over Karn’s protest and, when Karn refused to relent, struck his gavel again before pointing his finger at Karn and yelling, “Be quiet!”
Karn’s mouth dropped and his eyes widened in shock. So did ours.
What Karn was doing was what he’d attempted to do at the board’s regular meeting earlier this month: to point out a rule of procedure being broken, specifically the mayor participating in debate without first relinquishing his gavel and designating someone else as the meeting’s presiding officer
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Whether Karn was using the rule to do to the mayor what he would do to him — silence an opposing view — what matters is that every board member deserves the chance to be heard. And what matters more is a rule was indeed being broken. According to the rules of procedure that the board adopted just a few weeks ago, the mayor generally presides over and runs the board meetings but cannot participate in a debate unless he relinquishes his gavel for that debate. The mayor can call motions out of order and maintain order by determining whether a speaker has overstepped bounds of decency or relevance, but such rulings are supposed to be subject to appeal by any board member.
That the mayor cut off and shut up Karn before he could state his objection fully does not give an impression of proper procedure. It gives an impression of a chairman bent on controlling the board and quashing any dissension. It was only weeks ago that the board adopted rules of procedure endorsed by the UNC School of Government. If those rules are to amount for anything, the mayor’s actions against Karn must be ruled out of order.
And if the mayor is not acknowledging Karn’s protests accordingly, someone else on the board needs to call the mayor on it. (C) State Port Pilot 2010